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"Imi pasa ... sunt cuvinte cu care am crescut, sunt cuvinte care au cladit in mine. Sunt cuvinte care m-au slefuit sau poate chiar au cioplit, sunt cuvinte care m-au invatat sa iubesc si sa respect..."
Cunoasterea inseamna Putere. Fie ca te cunosti pe tine, fie ca il cunosti pe cel ce-ti sta alaturi, fie ca incerci cunoasterea celor din juru-ti.
Cunoasterea inseamna sa stii. Cunoasterea inseamna sa asculti. Cunoasterea inseamna SA STII SA ASCULTI.
Nu exista informatie mai buna decat cea venita din launtrul tau, din trecutul tau, din experientele tale, din durerile si bucuriile tale.
Nu exista informatie mai pretioasa decat cea venita din ascultarea inspre celalalt. Si dinspre celalalalt.
Vrei sa afli mai multe despre tine? Asculta-te. Si cand spun asta, ma refer la acea voce venita din fiinta ta interioara, acea vibratie, acel “a simti”. Despre tot. Despre toate. E atat de simplu sa te asculti. Trebuie doar sa te opresti un pic. Din valtoarea gandurilor, din multitudinea emotiilor, din tot vartejul timpului, care te fura si te face sa alergi mereu inainte, uitand sa mai zabovesti o clipa.
Dintotdeauna am simtit viata ca pe un imens carusel. Vazut de pe margine e o minune. Multitudine de sclipiri colorate, caluti confortabili tocmai buni de calarit, vartej ametitor, zambete luminoase, rasete si multa, multa bucurie. Mereu si mereu.
Pana cand, uitand sa te opresti, ametesti. Si de acolo nu mai stii. Nici cine esti, nici cat esti, nici cum esti. Adica tu, adica altfel.
De buna seama, noi ne alegem dintru inceput locul, bucuria plina de beatitudinea rotundului ce se invarte, noi alegem sa-i privim pe cei de pe margine, noi alegem sa fim priviti. Intrebarea este insa pentru cat timp? Din pacate, uitam sa ne oprim. Uitam sa sarim din cand in cand din cercul ametitor, care ne fura si ne fascineaza. Uneori chiar pentru totdeauna. Adica o viata intreaga. Ne urcam, pornim si ne invartim... Si ne tot invartim...
Ei bine, opriti putin caruselul. Sau, daca nu se poate, sariti un pic din el. Nu aveti nimic de pierdut. Nicidecum. Doar de castigat. Si, odata ajunsi pe margine, priviti tot, ascultati tot, invatati tot. Aceste momente ne vin totdeauna in viata, trebuie sa fim plini de atentie ca sa le putem primi si plini de respect, ca sa stim sa le dam curs. Sunt momentele noastre si doar ale noastre, pe care trebuie sa le exploatam la maximum. Si abia mai apoi sa o luam de la capat. Si asta o putem face in primul rand incercand sa ne cunoastem, incercand sa ne ascultam, si mai apoi incercand sa dam curs acestei cunoasteri si ascultari.
Incercati sa-l cunoasteti si pe cel ce il doriti alaturi, pe cel ce va sta alaturi. Ca si in cazul dumneavoastra, ascultati. Si cand credeti ca ati obosit, mai ascultati o data. Nu-mi ajung cuvintele sa va spun ca acesta, ca nici unul altul, este cel mai bun mod de a-l cunoaste pe celallalt. Cu atat mai mult cu cat suntem la inceputul unei relatii. Pana la urma, toti suntem aceeasi faptura. Tuturor ne place sa vorbim despre noi, ne place sa fim ascultati. Ne flateaza si ne incanta.
Ce se va intampla cand veti face asta? Doua situatii. In primul rand, veti afla o gramada de informatii care va vor lamuri din timp daca sunteti langa persoana potrivita, daca este ceea ce va doriti alaturi, cu alte cuvinte cunoasterea de celalalalt.
Pe de alta parte, faptul ca stiti sa ascultati va trimite semnale bune despre tine catre celalalt, despre rabdarea care o aveti, despre intelepciunea de a-l asculta, despre curiozitatea in a-l cunoaste pe celalalt. Asta il va face sa se simta bine, fooooarte bine.
Cuvantul este magic. Cuvantul vorbit, cuvantul auzit, si mai ales cuvantul ascultat.
Ascultati deci. Incepeti cu voi, apoi cu celalalt.
Va promit, magia va aparea de-ndata..
"Imi Pasa" , Ovis
Când îti vine sa plângi, adu-ti aminte de clipele în care zâmbeai; când simti ca viata nu are nici un rost gândeste-te la cei ce mai au doar o zi de trait, când simti ca vrei sa mori gândeste-te ca altii ar da orice sa traiasca... iubeste-ti viata si mai ales prietenii... E cel mai de pret lucru!
You have medium extroversion.
You're not the life of the party, but you do show up for the party.
Sometimes you are full of energy and open to new social experiences.
But you also need to hibernate and enjoy your "down time."
Conscientiousness:
You have medium conscientiousness.
You're generally good at balancing work and play.
When you need to buckle down, you can usually get tasks done.
But you've been known to goof off when you know you can get away with it.
Agreeableness:
You have high agreeableness.
You are easy to get along with, and you value harmony highly.
Helpful and generous, you are willing to compromise with almost anyone.
You give people the benefit of the doubt and don't mind giving someone a second chance.
Neuroticism:
You have high neuroticism.
It's easy for you to feel shaken, worried, or depressed.
You often worry, and your worries prevent you from living life fully.
You tend to be emotionally reactive and moody. Your either flying very high or feeling very low.
Openness to experience:
Your openness to new experiences is high.
In life, you tend to be an early adopter of all new things and ideas.
You'll try almost anything interesting, and you're constantly pushing your own limits.
A great connoisseir of art and beauty, you can find the positive side of almost anything.
You do tend to tell the truth a lot
But you also stretch the truth on occasion
You figure a little lie isn't a big deal
As long as it doesn't hurt anyone too much!
You are a fairly open person, but you also like to maintain your privacy.
You definitely will tell all (okay, almost all) to your closest friends...
But strangers and acquaintances only get a peek into your life.
You are so open minded that your brain may have fallen out!
Well, not really. But you may be confused on where you stand.
You don't have a judgemental bone in your body, and you're very accepting.
You enjoy the best of every life philosophy, even if you sometimes contradict yourself.
Moody, emotional, and even a bit angsty... you certainly know how to express your emotions.
At times, you tend to lack perspective on your life, probably as a result of looking inward too much.
This introspection does give you a flair for the dramatic. And it's even maybe made you cultivate some artistic talents!
You have a true artist's temperament... which is a blessing and a curse.
You take life as it is, and you find happiness in a variety of things.
You tend to be close to family and friends. But it's hard to get into your inner circle.
Making the little things wonderful is important to you, and you probably have an inviting home.
You seek harmony with others, but occasionally you have a very stubborn streak.
Your strength: Your intense optimism
Your weakness: You shy away from exploring your talents
"Back in black, I hit the sack,
I've been too long, I'm glad to be back"
Things sometimes get really crazy for you, and sometimes you have to get away from all the chaos.
But each time you stage your comeback, it's even better than the last!
You have a high luck quotient.
More often than not, you've felt very lucky in your life.
You may be randomly lucky, but it's probably more than that.
Optimistic and open minded, you take advantage of all the luck that comes your way.
